Step 1: Start in a space you actually care about

→ Choose communities aligned with what you’re genuinely building, learning, or obsessed with.

→ People can tell when you're faking it - authenticity beats strategy every time.

Step 2: Show up curious, not promotional

→ Don’t drop links right away. Join conversations. Ask questions. Share thoughts.

→ Think “co-builder,” not “cold seller.”

Step 3: Share useful stuff, not just polished wins

→ Post honest learnings, struggles, and behind-the-scenes moments.

→ Let people relate to the journey, not just the highlights.

Step 4: Comment like a collaborator

→ Skip “love this!” - instead, add your take, share a similar experience, or ask a follow-up question.

→ That’s how you build actual relationships.

Step 5: Build in public, in pieces

→ Don’t wait for launch day. Share what you’re building, designing, testing.

→ Invite input. Make others feel invested.

Step 6: Keep showing up

→ Engagement compounds. Drop thoughtful replies. Join weekly threads. Support others.

→ People remember consistency more than virality.

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